Not all hurt people hurt people. Some hurt people choose to heal and some people choose to not only heal, but help others by turning their pain into purpose. I loved when I heard, Taylor’s song, Eldest Daughter, because it touches on how it’s difficult to be our sincere, true self publicly because that’s not what our culture rewards. Our culture rewards putting on the show of being “unbothered.” There’s pressure so many of us feel to stay strong, composed, and “fine” all the